12 Things You Just Don’t Do Over Text – Avoid These Common Mistakes
Texting is a convenient way to stay connected. But not everything translates well over messages.
Some things should simply be avoided to keep conversations smooth and clear.
Admitting you’re mad without context
Texting that you’re mad without saying why only creates confusion. The other person is left guessing and might feel frustrated or defensive.
If you need to share your feelings, try to briefly say what’s bothering you. It helps avoid misunderstandings and keeps the conversation productive.
Clear communication is key, even over text.
Sending long rants
You might feel the urge to get everything off your chest in one message. But sending a long rant over text usually overwhelms the person on the receiving end.
Texts are meant to be quick and clear. When you send a long rant, it’s hard for the other person to respond thoughtfully.
If something is bothering you, try breaking it up into smaller points or wait for a face-to-face talk.
Breaking up
You don’t want to break up over text. It feels impersonal and can come off as insensitive.
If you need to end things, try to do it face-to-face or, at the very least, by phone. It shows respect and gives both of you space to talk.
Texting a breakup can lead to misunderstandings because tone is hard to convey.
Discussing finances in detail
Talking about money over text can get messy fast. You miss the tone and expressions that help soften sensitive topics.
If you have to bring up finances, keep it short and straightforward. Avoid sharing numbers or complicated details that could be misunderstood.
Big financial conversations are better in person or at least over the phone.
Asking ‘Where are you?’ repeatedly
If you keep texting someone “Where are you?” over and over, it can start to feel really annoying. It might come off like you don’t trust them or that you’re being clingy.
People usually have their own pace for replying. Giving them a bit of space to respond is better than bombarding them with repeated questions.
If you’re worried, try sending one message asking nicely. After that, wait instead of sending the same question multiple times.
Using ALL CAPS to yell
Typing in ALL CAPS feels like shouting in text form. It can come across as aggressive or rude, even if you don’t mean it that way.
You can express excitement or urgency without yelling. Just use regular capitalization and maybe an exclamation mark instead.
If you want to emphasize something, try italics or bold instead of yelling.
Sharing sensitive family drama
You don’t want to air family issues over text. It’s easy for messages to be misunderstood or taken out of context.
Texts can spread fast, and before you know it, private matters become public.
If the topic is delicate, a face-to-face talk or a phone call is a safer way to handle it. Texting lacks the tone and nuance that sensitive conversations need.
Flirting aggressively
You don’t want to come on too strong over text. It can feel overwhelming or even creepy to the person on the other end.
Keep your messages light and playful instead of pushing too hard. Text lacks tone, so what feels fun to you might seem intense to them.
If you’re interested, show it with subtle compliments or a little teasing.
Remember, pacing is key. Give the conversation space to breathe and see how they respond before turning up the heat.
Ghosting without explanation
Ghosting someone without saying why leaves the other person confused and hurt. You might think it’s easier to disappear, but it usually just causes frustration.
If you don’t want to continue a conversation or relationship, a simple message explaining your feelings is enough. It shows respect and maturity.
Avoiding any explanation can damage trust and make future communication awkward.
Demanding immediate responses
You shouldn’t expect someone to reply right away every time you text. People have different schedules and priorities, so giving them space is important.
Constantly pushing for instant answers can come off as needy or rude. It’s okay to wait a bit before getting a reply.
If it’s urgent, try calling instead. Texts are better for casual or less time-sensitive conversations.
Remember, patience shows respect.
Sending memes that might offend
You might think a meme is funny, but it could easily offend the person on the other end. Humor doesn’t always translate the same way in text, especially if it touches on sensitive topics.
Before sending a meme, consider how well you know the person and their sense of humor. If you’re unsure, it’s better to hold back or choose something clearly lighthearted.
A meme meant to be a joke could come across as hurtful or rude. It’s not worth risking a misunderstanding over something meant to be funny.
Discussing health issues extensively
Texting isn’t the best place to dive deep into health problems. You might miss important details or not fully understand the other person’s feelings.
If you need to talk about something serious, it’s better to do it face-to-face or over a call. That way, you can ask questions and offer support in a clearer, more caring way.
Mental health or physical symptoms deserve more attention than short messages can provide. Keep it light over text.
